Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... IS IT REALLY?!!


It's said that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and the most important image is the one we have of ourselves. That image is formed in the early childhood...
We can be considered lucky if our parents and other people unconditionally loved us, supported, encouraged, nurtured, pampered and looked after. Then we somehow naturally (cause of the good mental patterns and beliefs) love ourselves and appreciate our beauty, both physical and inner one. But what if we didn't have such a good childhood; what if we felt the shortage or complete lack of love and support from those who supposedly should give that to us?! The lack of confirmation that we are divine and fascinating beings in the small and fragile bodies (only a few years old) makes deep wounds on our soul and dirty layers in the subconscious mind... All this distorts the image we create of ourselves; it all causes us to love and appreciate ourselves less; to believe that we are not enough: good, beautiful, smart, successful, witty, skinny, seductive, sexy, _____ (you name it!)! Fortunately there are many ways to recover and rebuild the self-love from the roots (I guarantee you that), but it takes constant effort, will, patience and especially willingness to forgive- yourself and others!
My loves, please realize one thing: YOU ARE ALREADY BEAUTIFUL AND PERFECT, right here and right now, just the way you are! We all have our own specific, unique beauty- a gift we've received from the Universe, from the God. Celebrate this gift, because only you have it, in this entire world! There is no beauty like yours, nor it will ever exist! Let this wonderful Dove video remind you of that! Take the full responsibility for your life, your thoughts, words and actions! Start from today! I love you and I'm here for you!<3
p.s. I really like to take care of myself, and I'm happily checking all the time what's new in the beauty and make-up world. That's why you can see the Essence catalog for this spring/summer in my hands...

Kaze se da je lepota u oku posmatraca, a najvaznija slika je ona koju imamo o sebi. Ta slika se formira jos u ranom detinjstvu...
Mozemo se smatrati srecnima ako su nas roditelji i okolina bezuslovno voleli, podrzavali, bodrili, negovali, mazili i pazili. Tada smo nekako prirodno (zbog dobrih mentalnih obrazaca i verovanja) naklonjeni sebi i cenimo svoju lepotu, i psihicku i fizicku. Ali sta ako nismo imali tako lepo detinjstvo; sta ako smo osetili manjak ili potpuni nedostatak ljubavi i podrske od onih koji bi navodno trebalo da nam to pruze?! Izostanak potvrde da smo fascinantna bozanstvena bica u tako malom i krhkom telu starom svega par godina, stvara nam duboke rane na dusi i prljave taloge u podsvesti... Sve to iskrivljuje sliku koju stvaramo o sebi; sve to utice da manje volimo i cenimo sebe; da smatramo da nismo dovoljno: dobri, lepi, pametni, uspesni, duhoviti, vitki, zavodljivi, seksipilni, _____ (dopunite sami)! Srecom postoje mnogi nacini da se povrati i iz korena ponovo izgradi ljubav prema sebi (to vam garantujem, i o tome cemo drugom prilikom), ali potreban je konstantan trud, volja, strpljenje i narocito spremnost da se oprosti- i sebi i drugima!
Drage moje (i dragi moji), molim vas shvatite jedno: VI STE VEC PRELEPI I SAVRSENI, upravo sada i ovde, takvi kakvi jeste! Svi mi imamo svoju specificnu, unikatnu lepotu- dar koji smo dobili od Vaseljene, od Boga. Slavite taj dar, jer ga samo vi imate, na citavom ovom svetu! Ne postoji lepota kao sto je vasa, niti ce postojati!! Neka vas ovaj divan Dove video podseti na to!! Prihvatite punu odgovornost za svoj zivot, svoje misli, reci i dela!! Pocnite danas! Volim vas i tu sam za vas!!<3
p.s. Zaista mi se svidja da vodim racuna o sebi, i uvek rado proveravam sta ima novo u svetu lepote i sminke. Zato i mozete videti Essence katalog za ovo prolece/leto u mojim rukama...








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5 comments:

  1. Nice post!
    Filakia
    http://beauty-is-within.blogspot.gr/

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  2. Very well said, Jelena. Even speaking as a male, I have my own thoughts and preferences on who and what are beautiful. Your contribution here is very much appreciated. And for the record, you are absolutely beautiful. :)

    johnbmarine.blogspot.com

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  3. Lepo receno :) Inace volim Essence proizvode :)

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  4. odlicni nokti, Lijep pozdrav od mene !

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Jelena

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